Learning #7 - The Power of Kindness and Compassion in Surprising Others

The learning of the day is: if you want to surprise someone, use kindness and compassion. Give them more than expected. Tell them what they mean to you, say what you usually don't say. 
Surprising someone with a heartfelt gesture or kind words can have a profound impact on their day, and show them just how much they mean to you.

However, it's important to be mindful of the type of surprise you're giving. If your surprise generates even a couple of minutes of doubt or sadness in the person, then maybe you should rethink your approach. Surprises should be thoughtful and genuine, not negative or hurtful.

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